A relationship in the 5th Dimension works very differently to the way 3rd dimensional relationships work. When someone is anchoring the 5th dimensional vibrations into their being a kind of bubble forms around them. This is their own inner energy and the power of their unique soul selves that is starting to shine from within them. It radiates out from them. They know who they are and are being themselves in the world and this forms a bubble around them.
Once a person vibrates at this level and forms their bubble they can then form a 5D relationship with someone who is also vibrating at a similar level and has formed their own bubble. But the way the relationship forms energetically is quite different and very interesting.
In 3D the energy connections we have with other people can get quite “messy”. There are cords of energy that spill out of us in all directions with lots of expectations, conditions and lots of emotion. We attach these cords to other people we are in relationships with and then a two way stream of energy occurs. Sometimes these streams of energy are one sided and drain someone, other times they are controlling or have a lot of conditions eg I will love you if you do this for me… But most of the time they have expectations and attachments to the outcome of the relationship.
In 5D relationships, once someone has formed their individual bubble they are able to form a combined bubble with someone else. They do not really connect directly with the other person through energy cords or streams. Everything about the relationship gets put into the joint energy bubble. This keeps the individuals in their integrity, removes all ego and conditions from the relationship and the connection with the other person becomes strong, clear, and easy, without conditions or limits penetrating the other person's energy and can be empowered by each party according to their needs and wants.
If one person wants a certain outcome or wants to play a certain “game” with the other person they energetically place this intent into the joint bubble. If the other person also puts this same intent into the bubble then it happens. If the other person does not want to play that “game” or has a different intent then it does not happen. There has to be a joint purpose or intent in the joint bubble for the relationship between the 2 people to manifest physically in that direction.
When you form a 3D relationship you also have expectations and intentions of what you want out of the relationship. This is great! But the way that energy is communicated is via a cord or energy stream which flows directly to the other person. So if they are not on the same page as you regarding the relationship then they may feel threatened and confused by what they are feeling through the energy cord that you are projecting. In 3D if you chose to get something in particular out of the relationship then this would be communicated energetically via an energy cord running directly to the other person. They would feel this as force/control and may react unfavourably if they did not want to “play that game”. Whereas if they were also keen to be involved in what you were putting out to them, then they would welcome this energy cord and “play the game” with you. But in 5D you just put your intent into the joint bubble and then let the flow of the relationship dictate whether the other person chooses the same thing or not – without attachment to a certain outcome.
Most relationships happen in an unconscious way in terms of the energy exchanges between the people involved. And a 5D relationship can happen without ever needing to know about this joint bubble or what is happening. But interestingly, a 5D person cannot form an effective 5D relationship with someone who is firmly 3D.
Generally in close circles of friends or families, vibrational changes affect everyone at the same time. If someone in the group makes a vibrational shift then as long as everyone else is somewhat open to shifting and evolving themselves, then they will also make a vibrational shift. It is like a ripple effect that goes through the group. If you are evolving vibrationally you may notice some people dropping out of your life, this is probably because they are not willing to change their vibration and they have chosen a different evolutionary path, so they remove themselves so that they are not effected by your energy anymore. But those that do stay around you will be shifting as well, and you may notice that your relationships become stronger, purer, without agenda or attachment. You are forming 5D relationships.
When you have a 5D relationship you will find that your own unique bubble strengthens because you are not engaging in the old ways of energy cords which you would be constantly battling with, in order to maintain your own unique sense of self.
It may sound isolating to operate in this way but relationships actually feel much more empowering, close and authentic. There are no mind games or wondering what the other person is thinking or feeling or worrying that you have hurt their feelings. Everything is in the energetic flow of the joint bubble that you have formed.
If you are interacting with the general public in a shopping centre, then your unique 5D bubble does its job of keeping your energy in integrity and your brief encounters with other people happen seamlessly. But if you need to really engage with someone and work together with an individual who is entrenched in 3D vibrations, then it can be quite difficult and somewhat frustrating to move forward. A 5D person can still form energetic cords to a 3D person but the relationship may not feel as authentic as it does with another 5D person.
For example if you are engaging tradespeople to work on your house. You need to form a type of relationship with them as you have a joint goal or purpose in the work you need to do together. But if you are 5D and they are 3D and you have different ways of connecting – then what happens?! You may be left feeling unsatisfied and probably frustrated that your goal is not manifesting.
As we evolve we will “find” more people who are like us vibrationally. The relationships will be easier and light, and the more similarities we have in a joint purpose, the stronger our joint energy bubbles will become and the more fulfilling our relationships will be.
I believe that knowing who we are at our unique soul level holds the key to living an authentic and joyful life. Once we know who we are, we can begin to BE who we are, and then BECOME who we were always destined to be.
Copyright 2023 Paula Vanderzon